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Forehead
January-19th-2009, 08:01 AM
Link (http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090119/ap_on_re_us/marry_or_pay)

FLINT, Mich. – The state of Michigan is giving a father a choice: pay the medical cost of his daughter's birth or marry the girl's mother. Gary Johnson was billed $3,800 for the birth of his daughter JaeLyn, The Flint Journal reported in Sunday online editions. Johnson is not married to the child's mother, Rebecca Witt.

The Michigan Legislature amended the state's paternity act five years ago to waive birthing costs for a father, if he married the child's mother. A year later, Witt gave birth to JaeLyn. The state paid for the hospital costs because Witt was on Medicaid at the time and is now trying to recover the money.

Jack Battles, the Genesee County Friend of the Court, said the law is an incentive to maintain the sanctity of marriage.

"It's totally up to them," said Battles, whose office enforces paternity rulings, child support and other aspects of family law. Until Johnson can produce a marriage license, "they have to pay."
Johnson and Witt said they want to marry eventually, but Witt said she wants her marriage date to be her choice.

"I don't think anybody should tell me when to get married," said Witt. "I would like to have a nice wedding, and I can wait for it."

Witt and Johnson said they have been struggling since the state started coming after Johnson for the hospital costs. Johnson said he was told he would be billed $500 a month and planned to meet with a caseworker to work out a solution.

"Losing just $10 hurts us," said Johnson, who makes $8 an hour at a Grand Blanc-area nursery. "We don't have a car, we don't even have an oven."

Johnson said he understood the state wants to promote marriage for parents but he respects Witt's position. "It's a woman's dream to have the best wedding she can have," he said.

twa
January-19th-2009, 08:16 AM
Why the full cost?
Last time I checked it takes two.

Bang
January-19th-2009, 08:28 AM
So if he gets married, they'll forgive the hospital bill? Not likely, Marry her and THEN pay. Course, forcing him to marry her is pretty archaic in it's own right.

Make him pay the hospital like the rest of us have to, and beyond that if he doesn't pay child support, put him in jail.

~Bang

TMK9973
January-19th-2009, 08:29 AM
Because she is on Medicaid so the state paid it.

I have no issue with this. State isn't forcing them to get married. All they are saying is the state was forced to pay for a birth. The mother is on Medicaid, the father is not. So he needs to pay back the state.

If they are married, then basically he is covered by her medicaid as well, and the state will pick up the bill. State actually helped them out by basically saying they will apply the medicaid retro actively if they were married.
If not, then the father is not on medicaid, so pay your bill.

Dictator
January-19th-2009, 08:38 AM
"Losing just $10 hurts us," said Johnson, who makes $8 an hour at a Grand Blanc-area nursery. "We don't even have an oven."

Then maybe you shouldn't be having children.

twa
January-19th-2009, 08:40 AM
Probably because he can still bail and leave the mom with the full responsibility of paying for raising the kid. Also guys can impregnate many women at one time and thereby are a much greater financial liability.

Again,it takes two

she had the option of birth control or abortion or not having sex with him(all of which he has no control of).

Why does the male assume full financial liability?

added
with the child support laws bailing is not a easy option

kuraitengai
January-19th-2009, 11:43 AM
"Losing just $10 hurts us," said Johnson, who makes $8 an hour at a Grand Blanc-area nursery. "We don't have a car, we don't even have an oven."

then what the hell are you doing making a baby? if you cant afford a car or an oven, how do you expect to pay for food and diapers and crap?