Man died after sex act went wrong

[China]

Man died after sex act went wrong (http://www.getreading.co.uk/news/s/2043884_man_died_after_sex_act_went_wrong)

By Anna Roberts
29/ 1/2009

A security guard accidentally suffocated himself in an autoerotic accident, an inquest heard.

Ralph Santiago, 31, was found dead in the men’s toilets of the building he worked wearing Wellington boots, a wetsuit and gas mask.

His body was found by a colleague at about 7am on Tuesday, July 22, last year, lying on the floor with a gas canister nearby.

Further rubber/latex outfits were found in Mr Santiago’s car and in the ladies’ toilets of his workplace at Aquis House in Blagrave Street, Reading.

The evening before he died Mr Santiago printed off information from the internet explaining how inhaling “poppers” (legal chemicals used to stimulate a sexual high) via a gas mask can cause arousal.

At an inquest into his death Berkshire coroner Peter Bedford explained Mr Santiago had only worked at Aquis House for one day before he died.

On Monday, July 21, he arrived ready for his 6.30pm to 6.30am shift.

But the next morning, when fellow guard Christopher Courtenay arrived, Mr Santiago was nowhere to be seen.

Reading from Mr Courtenay’s statement, Mr Bedford said: “At 6.30am I could still not see him. I assumed he was in the bathroom.

“At 6.50am I carried out a full patrol. Ralph was still not back.”

Mr Courtenay visited the staff bathroom and discovered the men’s toilet was locked. He went upstairs to get a key, when he opened the door he found a body.

However, he was not certain it was Mr Santiago because only his eyes were visible under the mask.

Paramedics and the police were called. In a statement, PC Barbara Cummings described Mr Santiago as wearing “a black latex suit, gloves, a gas mask and Wellingtons.”

Mr Santiago’s girlfriend Hannele Vaher did not attend the inquest but had previously explained “he had fetishes”, of which she did not take part.

She said he was “prone to dressing up” and adding that he took poppers.

Toxicology tests showed Mr Santiago, of Beresford Avenue in Surbiton, had some alcohol in his system.

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[Koolblue13]

I've read that 25% of successful suicides are actually people asphyxiating themselves while they masturbate.

[Skinz4Life12]

some crazy ****ers out there

[SkinsBry]

When I first saw the thread title, I thought it was going to be about Romo being suffocated by Jessica. :D

[Midnight Judges]

I dated a girl who was 'bouty 'bout it.

[Zguy28]

My goodness. That's just sad.

[Skinz4Life12]

^^^^^what?

(referring to MJ)

[GibbsFactor]

haha, my peer up in Boston is Raphael Santiago, he's getting this story.

[#98QBKiller]

I've read that 25% of successful suicides are actually people asphyxiating themselves while they masturbate.


That's crazy.

My buddy found a dead body in the woods behind his house a few weeks ago. The guy was sitting down and strangled against a tree with a belt around his neck.

He said the cops came out there and questioned him and cleared the scene and told him that it could be either a murder or suicide. They also mentioned the possibility of accidental death via erotic asphyxiation.

They told him that he'd be contacted as the case developed but he still hasn't heard anything. He took a couple pictures of it on his cell phone and showed them to me without any warning. It was pretty ****ed up.

[BigMike619]

I used to date a girl who liked to be choked during sex. She also liked to be cut. Kind of weird but whatever works.

[terrifNick21]

When I first saw the thread title, I thought it was going to be about Romo being suffocated by Jessica. :D

:rotflmao: :D

[China]

Darth Vader was into that too...unfortunately Padme wasn't.

[Koolblue13]

I used to date a girl who liked to be choked during sex. She also liked to be cut. Kind of weird but whatever works.

I've met a lot of girls who like to be choked out. The may not realize it at first, but if you do it right then.....

[mjah]

I've read that 25% of successful suicides are actually people asphyxiating themselves while they masturbate.
That's a funny definition of "successful." ;)

[twa]

I've met a lot of girls who like to be choked out. The may not realize it at first, but if you do it right then.....

Aye, don't know what they are missing sometimes.

But some are ingrates;)

[BigMike619]

Darth Vader was into that too...unfortunately Padme wasn't.

youre breaking my heart annie!!

[Koolblue13]

Aye, don't know what they are missing sometimes.

But some are ingrates;)

Either way, they learn quick.:)

[PleaseBlitz]

I was physically unable to read any more after this sentence, i am laughing too hard.


Ralph Santiago, 31, was found dead in the men’s toilets of the building he worked wearing Wellington boots, a wetsuit and gas mask.

[Bang]

I don't know,, how much better can it feel?
An orgasm is already WAY WAY up on my list of favorite things.. how much better can it be that you'd risk your life for it?
(and in such a stupid way,,, i mean damn, what an embarrassing way to be found!)
Maybe someone with experience in the matter can tell me.

~Bang

[Boots]

So, you could say he, came and went all at the same time.

[Bliz]

Ralph Santiago, 31, was found dead in the men’s toilets of the building he worked wearing Wellington boots, a wetsuit and gas mask.


Aside from the obvious, there are a number of other things about this that confuse me.

Specifically the wetsuit. First of all, how is that supposed to contribute? I get that he's doing crazy stuff with inhalants and a gas mask. Fine. But what's the wetsuit for? Also, I mean, how great can it be if you're going through a layer of neoprene? Seems like it would be generally uncomfortable. And what about when you're done? I've worn wetsuits to surf and whitewater raft a few times, and I don't remember any with zippers or anything. So you just bust right in the wetsuit? What the hell?

[dreamshatterer]

So, you could say he, came and went all at the same time.


I don't know why, but I lost it when I read that.:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

[Zhouse]

So, you could say he, came and went all at the same time.

Richard Pryor?

[Metskins]

Hate it when that happens...

[Boots]

Richard Pryor?

I think you're right.

[jb4348]

I guess its the same as getting tied up and beat or a ball gag put in your mouth. People do some crazy things when it comes to sex. I had someone very close to me die from this situation with a belt it didn't help they were eptiletic (sp) I just think its sad and dumb to risk your life to have a so called better orgasm.

[Boots]

Have you ever watched "real sex" on HBO? They show some pretty wierd stuff.

[ljs]

I used to date a girl who liked to be choked during sex. She also liked to be cut. Kind of weird but whatever works.

haaha, I met one of those....


and I responded to a DOA for the same type of death...and we watched several video's of them at the police academy. One guy liked to dress up in women's clothing, then hang himself until he almost passed out, and video taped it. well one time his chair fell, so he couldn't recover and we watched the video where he hung to death.

[ljs]

Have you ever watched "real sex" on HBO? They show some pretty wierd stuff.

been forever since I've seen it. But one was where people dress up in saddles/bridles and act like horses. Another is when the people dress up in animal costumes. I think they call themselves the furries...lol

[dg28daman]

this is what we refer to as "weeding out the stupid"

[Metalhead]

this is what we refer to as "weeding out the stupid"

This could be nominated for a Darwin Award. First day on the job too...

[twa]

Bliz, rubber (and neoprene)and latex have a big following in the fetish crowd

There are some seriously odd people walking (and working) around you everyday that you would never guess by looking.

Especially in public service.