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KAOSkins
February-13th-2009, 12:38 PM
Ninety seven years old. I honestly hope I don’t last that long. The things my grandpa saw through his life were amazing. I do hope I get see advances as great as the ones he experienced.

The guy got a job in the mailroom at GM in 1928 and never let go. Without a degree or having payed much attention in HS he rose to middle management and got good at golf as a result. That’s how things were in those days. I learned my love of golf from him. I’m not very good but it’s one of my favorite ways to spend a day outside and drinking cold beer (which he loved too). Growing up in the Detroit he learned to fish when he was a kid and it was a constant source of fun, escape, food and family get togethers throughout his life. Fishing is my single favorite thing to do, bar none, and that I owe to all the kick ass days we spent fishing either the lakes in Michigan or later the gulf coast of Florida where they retired. I hope I can pass on the legacy and keep my nephews on the water by instilling the same sense of pleasure with fishing that he instilled in me.

He worked everyday of his life until he couldn’t anymore and provided a role model in how to treat your family members with respect and to work and save. And to still allow yourself nice trips and some nice things. Saving money was instilled in him like it was a lot of depression survivors and it paid off for him countless times throughout his life. Even in the end when he got spend his last days in a really nice hospice. I’m somewhat ashamed that I don’t share his financial discipline but I’m still working on it and I’ll get there for his memory.

I’ll miss you. RIP Grandpa.

zoony
February-13th-2009, 12:41 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss KAO.

Grandpa sounds a lot like my Grandpa. Truly the greatest generation. These guys built the United States of America- and if we want to know how to get things back on track, I think we need not look any further than the actions of that generation.

God Bless

twa
February-13th-2009, 12:42 PM
Sorry for your loss,sounds like he made a good run of it though.

rdsknbill
February-13th-2009, 12:45 PM
Condolences to you KAO. Sounds like he was a good man

BigMike619
February-13th-2009, 12:46 PM
you were blessed to have such a man in your life. he sounds like a perfect role model and example of what a real man is.

God bless you and your family in this time of grieving KAO.

Forehead
February-13th-2009, 12:46 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss, glad you got to spend some real time with him. Unfortunately, I didn't get the same experiences with my grandfathers.

One was a machinist for the Railroad in PA, died two weeks before I was born. The other was a WWII vet and a rancher out in New Mexico, but he smoked two packs a day for 70 years or so, and by the time I came around, he didn't do too much, other than play cards, eat and sleep. As Zoony said, they were both part of the generation that helped build America, I just never got to experience much with them.

Cherish those memories.

motorhead
February-13th-2009, 12:57 PM
Sorry to hear.He also sounds a lot my grandpa who died in 1972.
He had a 250 acre farm outside of New Market,va.

d0ublestr0ker0ll
February-13th-2009, 01:07 PM
Wow, 41 and just lost your G-pap. Lucky man, you are.

Respects.

Mongo2365
February-13th-2009, 01:21 PM
My deepest condolences KAO. I lost my grandpa 12 years ago and I still think about him often. Cherish those memories you have of him, I know I do.

PleaseBlitz
February-13th-2009, 01:50 PM
Sorry for your loss KOA. Sounds like he had a long full life and lived it the right way. Cant ask for much more than that.

MissU28
February-13th-2009, 01:58 PM
So sorry to hear it. I am still grieving from the loss of mine last month. Hope you and your family are well.

gbear
February-13th-2009, 02:32 PM
Sorry to hear. I know I still my my grandpa who died 12 years ago. Heck, I just wrote about him to my grandma for valentine's day.

That generation sure did live a different life. It sometimes makes me question "progress" that we seem to have lost so many of the simple joys.

Burgold
February-13th-2009, 03:39 PM
God bless. Make sure his story lives. Sorry for your loss sounds like a true mench and a very good soul.

Predicto
February-13th-2009, 03:53 PM
Sounds like a good man indeed.

RIP

Ax
February-13th-2009, 04:51 PM
Sorry for your loss. It's easy to see, through your words, the affection and pride you have for him. He sounds like a great man.

My Grandpa has been gone for quite a while now. But, he still goes fishing with me every time I go.;)

Yours will too.

D'KanSkinFan
February-13th-2009, 04:56 PM
Condolences to you KAO; sounds like you have been given a great foundation by "grandpa".

May he Rest in Peace~ and you and your family find peace with his passing.

ljs
February-13th-2009, 05:10 PM
Very sorry for your loss. Grandpa's are the best. Prayers go out to you and your family in this time. RIP to your grandpa. (mine taught me fishing too!)

'Skins_&_'Stons
February-13th-2009, 05:10 PM
RIP. God bless.

KAOSkins
February-13th-2009, 05:29 PM
Thanks for the kind words all.

I was exceedingly lucky to have him around for so long, and my grandma is still kicking and sharp as a tack at 96. Absolutely amazing. The way we really repay our lost relatives is by making sure the way they did things and the things they did carry on. I'll do my best.

FerndaleSkins
February-13th-2009, 07:28 PM
Sorry for your loss.

My grandpa is 90 and he is in aweful shape, My sister and I are taking a trip down to Florida next weekend to say goodbye, I just hope he makes it that long. :(

Teller
February-13th-2009, 07:55 PM
Sorry for your loss, brother. Just remember, as long as you keep his memory alive, your grandpa's never really gone.

God bless you and your family, and grant your grandpa his well-earned rest.