Karma is Blessed thing!!!!!!

[Capt Rich Fla]

Ahhhhhhhhh! My ex is knockep up out of wedlock. That's the best news I've had all year.She's going to have a new baby next month. Sweeeeeeet. Maybe she's going to make a business out of child support. Maybe this didn't need to be a thread, but it's been so long since I've had news that made me want to dance in the streets. "Leeeeeet the sinshine in. Leeeeeet the sunshine." Haaaahahahaaaaaaa. Boy!, the catholic church isn't gonna like this one!:hysterical::evilg: Her father must be sooooo proud. wbaaahahaha

[Dan T.]

Caramel is a blessed thing?

[TheDoyler23]

Cap, have you had a few this evening? ;)

[edgun88]

Electra? Yea shes hot.

[Capt Rich Fla]

Cap, have you had a few this evening? ;)

Not a drop. Only water. That's all I can afford. Don't forget my ex has a new mouth to feed. She needs my money more than ever. That's almost the way she said it on the phone too. Like that one is my problem! baaaaa

[zoony]

Just think- your child support payments will be going to feed and cloth and educate another man's child. (if you don't think the lump sum you're giving her every month isn't going to find its way there, you're kidding yourself)

Yah, it makes sense that you are eccstatic. :insane:

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[edgun88]

Karma is spelled with a "K" ,Capt.

sucks for the kid.

[Capt Rich Fla]

Just think- your child support payments will be going to feed and cloth and educate another man's child. (if you don't think the lump sum you're giving her every month isn't going to find its way there, you're kidding yourself)

Yah, it makes sense that you are eccstatic. :insane:

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Gee Zoon, thanks for making me feel like an *** **** again. ;) I know it will, but I would love to see the look on her father's face when she has to tell him. She's a month away and he doesn't know.

[SC_RedskinsFan]

Karma is spelled with a "K" ,Capt.

sucks for the kid.

Maybe he spelled it with a C cause he wanted to grammar police :silly:

http://blogs.e-rockford.com/applesauce/files/2009/02/grammarpolice.gif

[zoony]

Gee Zoon, thanks for making me feel like an *** **** again. ;) I know it will, but I would love to see the look on her father's face when she has to tell him. She's a month away and he doesn't know.



Well, it sounds like you need to move on, and stop worrying about your ex and hoping she experiences misfortune so that you'll feel better about yourself.

Not preaching or trying to be a dick (honest), just saying that if channeled all that energy into yourself and your own situation you'd probably have things pretty good right now, independent of your ex-wife's luck.

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[RedlightG20]

Agreed with zoon. Use this energy to better your own position. Your "happiness" about this probably won't last too long and more than likely is blindfolding your real feelings.

My advice: don't get sucked into it. Wake up tomorrow with a new, fresh outlook on life. A good way to start is by doing something you haven't done in a long time or never do, like take a morning stroll around the neighborhood, or ride a bike somewhere. You'll be amazed how much it can help you clear your mind.

[SC_RedskinsFan]

I agree with what some of the others are saying Capt. You got to move on and forget about that *****. If you stay focused on her you will never be able to move forward in life.

[SC_RedskinsFan]

I don't understand. Why would you be giving her money at all?

Child support

[edgun88]

I have to agree with zune, too. Leave ex's behind. I mean what good do they do for you? Nothing at all but make you miserable.

[Dan T.]

Capt. Rich's married life as a horse race:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gSM8Okj_4TI

NSFW language...

I kid Capt., I kid...

[SkinsOrlando]

I can understand where Capt's exhuberance is coming from, something about a divorce just makes things like this sweet.

[Bang]

While I agree with Zoony, there's nothing wrong with enjoying the ***** getting some bad luck cast her way.

~Bang

[Capt Rich Fla]

I agree with what some of the others are saying Capt. You got to move on and forget about that *****. If you stay focused on her you will never be able to move forward in life.

Listen guys, I appreciate all the move on stuff, but I can't move on if she wont let me.

[FanboyOf91]

She called you about her next victim?

Damn...

[GoSkins561]

When I opened this thread I thought I was about to read a cool fishing story instead of this mess.

I will throw in my 2 cents. There is nothing kool about the situation, your child(ren)'s mother is in a bad situation or possibly good situaton and your kids are going to have to deal with it.

One would think, you would want the best for her considering she has a lot to do with your child(rens) future. The better her situation, the better your kids situation and your kids siblings situation. No matter what you do, your kid(s) will always be a sibling, a big brother or sister to your wifes new baby. You will always hear about this child, hopefully all good, whether you like it or not. Your kid(s) will always stick up for him/her on the playground and they will develop an unbreakable bond. I know you don't care for your wife, but now is the time to be there for her, at least for you kid(s) sake.

[GoSkins561]

While I agree with Zoony, there's nothing wrong with enjoying the ***** getting some bad luck cast her way.

~Bang

Dude there are kids involved, it's actually unfortunate for them that their parents can't stop themselves from acting like idiots.

[dreamshatterer]

Isn't Capt Rich Fla the guy who had the BEST thread of the year last year? The one where she called him accidently and listened to her for like 5 hours.

[VASkins540]

When I opened this thread I thought I was about to read a cool fishing story instead of this mess.

I will throw in my 2 cents. There is nothing kool about the situation, your child(ren)'s mother is in a bad situation or possibly good situaton and your kids are going to have to deal with it.

One would think, you would want the best for her considering she has a lot to do with your child(rens) future. The better her situation, the better your kids situation and your kids siblings situation. No matter what you do, your kid(s) will always be a sibling, a big brother or sister to your wifes new baby. You will always hear about this child, hopefully all good, whether you like it or not. Your kid(s) will always stick up for him/her on the playground and they will develop an unbreakable bond. I know you don't care for your wife, but now is the time to be there for her, at least for you kid(s) sake.

Word.


Isn't Capt Rich Fla the guy who had the BEST thread of the year last year? The one where she called him accidently and listened to her for like 5 hours.

Yes.

[Bang]

Dude there are kids involved, it's actually unfortunate for them that their parents can't stop themselves from acting like idiots.

Dude, you can't sit back and have a private smile without it being a public display for the kids?

It's not all that hard to do. Trust me, as one who knows how he feels and has custody of my son. You can hate the ex, and you can enjoy her failings without having to let your kid know that you hate her and enjoy watching her squirm.

~Bang

[Skins PR]

Lots of sad stuff going on in this thread...

I just wanted to say that karma is really an antiquated concept and many modern Buddhists do not believe in it.

[Capt Rich Fla]

Dude, you can't sit back and have a private smile without it being a public display for the kids?

It's not all that hard to do. Trust me, as one who knows how he feels and has custody of my son. You can hate the ex, and you can enjoy her failings without having to let your kid know that you hate her and enjoy watching her squirm.

~Bang

thank youuuu. GoSkins561, come on! Let's put it to you this way. If you had your own business and a thief came in and robbed you blind to the point of you losing everything you ever worked for. Even your home, and you have to find some ****y little appartment for 300 a month just to live in, and the judge makes you give a huge amount of money to the thief for many many years to come. Would you feel a little ****ed by the system and bitter? I never say a bad word to my kids about their mother. They'll learn of her soon enough on their own. Another thing that kinda ****ed me off tonight was I asked her if we could talk about lowering my monthly payment a little. She said that's not her problem and then spilled the news about her having a baby next month like that's MY ****ing problem. She's expecting me to pay for this one and doesn't expect her boy to pay for mine.

All this **** about moving on is fine for the one cashing the checks. The person paying has a nice fat reminder every month.

[GoSkins561]

Dude, you can't sit back and have a private smile without it being a public display for the kids?

It's not all that hard to do. Trust me, as one who knows how he feels and has custody of my son. You can hate the ex, and you can enjoy her failings without having to let your kid know that you hate her and enjoy watching her squirm.

~Bang

It doesn't matter, her failure(s) will impact the kid regardless, pretty sad situation on both fronts if you ask me.

[twa]

Listen guys, I appreciate all the move on stuff, but I can't move on if she wont let me.

Better hope she doesn't pin the new one on you;)

[Capt Rich Fla]

Better hope she doesn't pin the new one on you;)

science tells otherwise. I hope she hasn't told her dad it was me. Wait a minute........

[twa]

science tells otherwise. I hope she hasn't told her dad it was me. Wait a minute........

Unfortunately the burden of proof is on you in such cases

Ain't no assumption of innocence if named as sire for us,hell if the judge don't like you they can rule for support despite scientific evidence:silly:

[TheKurp]

Um, Karma is a philosophy based on your thoughts and actions as it relates to your life, not on what happens to others.

In other words, it's bad Karma to revel in the misfortunes of others.

[Chachie]

Um, Karma is a philosophy based on your thoughts and actions as it relates to your life, not on what happens to others.

In other words, it's bad Karma to revel in the misfortunes of others.



This is very true but I'm not throwing gavels around until I've walked a mile in the Captain's shoes. I admit Rich's best road is his highest but I also can't help but shake my head at his ex-wife's reckless abandon at handling their divorce and now her own fresh start, which she's obviously clouding already.

[deejaydana]

Somehow this story seems to fit well into this thread:


With the Economy Down, Vasectomy Rates Are Up
The expense of raising another child may be driving the trend, doctors say

By Amanda Gardner, HealthDay Reporter

The expense of raising another child may be driving the trend, doctors say.

FRIDAY, March 20 (HealthDay News) -- Doctors around the United States are reporting a sharp increase in the number of vasectomies performed since the economy soured last year, with one noting that many of his clients are from the beleaguered financial industry.

Their best guess is that the trend is due both to a decreased desire to have children because of the expense involved, and an increased desire to get such medical procedures done before their jobs -- and health insurance -- disappear.

Since November, Dr. Marc Goldstein, surgeon-in-chief of male reproductive medicine and surgery at the Cornell Institute for Reproductive Medicine in New York City, said his practice has seen about 48 percent more vasectomy consultations compared to the same time the previous year.

Nearly 50 percent of the patients in 2008 were employed within the financial industry, and more than 36 percent were seen since September, according to unpublished data from the Center for Male Reproductive Medicine and Microsurgery at New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell Medical Center.

Goldstein said his appointment secretary was the first to notice the uptick in the number of men requesting vasectomy consultations.

"I used to do one to two every Friday," he said. "Now I'm doing three on Fridays. There's been a significant increase."

"Nobody came in and said they were having a vasectomy because the [stock] market crashed," Goldstein added. "Most are saying, 'We've been thinking about it for a long time,' and [the crash] influenced their decision. They're saying with the cost of private school for three kids, they can't afford to have another one."

Dr. Harry Fisch, a professor of clinical urology at New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University Medical Center, in New York City, said: "The issue about kids is often a financial one, and, if finances are low, it makes sense that people would be less likely to have more kids. And if they're thinking about it, this is the time."

Dr. Stephen Jones, chairman of the department of regional urology at the Cleveland Clinic, noticed a trend toward more vasectomies in late November, with a 75 percent increase in the past few months.

"We were doing 40 to 45 a week, and then it went to 70 to 75 each week," he said. "Some patients were concerned about losing their insurance, but it seems to me more of it is the idea of 'I can't commit myself to raising another child in uncertain times.' "

Dr. Charles Lynne, professor of urology at the University of Miami School of Medicine, remembers a similar trend back in 1991, when Miami-based Eastern Airlines shut down, and he saw a rise in vasectomies in his practice.

"Eastern was one of the biggest employers, and employees still had insurance," he explained.

Link:
http://health.msn.com/health-topics/sexual-health/mens-sexual-health/articlepage.aspx?cp-documentid=100235024&GT1=31036

[CandaceM23]

Capt ... you said that you can't move on because she's not allowing you to move on. You CAN move on. You just have to find the strength to not give a damn about her anymore and stop worrying about her every move. You are still upset about the divorce - which is understandable - but if you want to move on, you're the one that controls that.

And I'm sure that she won't be able to pin this child on you if you aren't the one that created it. If she does try to get you to give her money for this child, you can easily ask for a paternity test and settle the matter.

[ljs]

Karma is a *****....but never wish for revenge.

[ldysknzfn1]

Unfortunately the burden of proof is on you in such cases

Ain't no assumption of innocence if named as sire for us,hell if the judge don't like you they can rule for support despite scientific evidence:silly:

This is true. My husband had a friend that this happened to. He had to support a child that wasn't his AFTER the DNA proved he wasn't the father. Do you know what the judge told him? "Mr. Smith(made up name b/c I can't think of his name at the moment), think of it this way, if you take care of a kid long enough, he starts to look like you". It was unbelievable..but they can order support from anyone regardless of the DNA.

[Capt Rich Fla]

I wonder if I'm not getting double hammered here. That scum bag won't even ask her to marry him. When this kid is born, who's last name is he going to have? Her last name, unfortunately is still my last name.

[Mooney]

My ex is knockep up out of wedlock......She's going to have a new baby next month.




8 months pregnant and you're just now noticing?

[Chachie]

That scum bag won't even ask her to marry him.


He probably knows she's lost right now, which is evident by her sleeping around and not demanding that protection be used or at least used effectively. He can see that marrying a pregnant woman on the rebound of draining her first husband's bank account is not a wise thing to do. I hope he steps up financially at least.

[BurntToast]

Dude let it go!

[Titaw]

Capt. cannot be held liable to support this *****'s baby. Trust me I raised a kid for a year thinking it was mine and the paternity test proved otherwise. As soon as the results came in I lost all rights to the child, she also lost out in child support as well.

Rich, I understand your jubilation. I still to this day wish my ex would be run over by a Mack truck, repeatedly. Although, it'll be hard for that to happen due to the fact that she is in jail.

[Capt Rich Fla]

He probably knows she's lost right now, which is evident by her sleeping around and not demanding that protection be used or at least used effectively. He can see that marrying a pregnant woman on the rebound of draining her first husband's bank account is not a wise thing to do. I hope he steps up financially at least.

I don't understand this world. Where I come from if you get a girl pregnant you have the baby and you will get married and there will be no divorce and you will give that child a good life. When will our generation understand, once you have a kid it's not about us anymore. It's about the kid. "I might not be in love with her." Tough ****. Why can't people do the right thing by their kids? They should get married. I don't care what they feel for each other. This single parent stuff today is bull****. Now this child has to grow up without a father. What a pair of scumbags. I'd be willing to take the baby if they can't do the right thing. ****!

[Chachie]

I don't understand this world. , etc.


I remember the cell phone fiasco but I can't remember the circumstances of your break-up with her, Rich. How come you two didn't stick it out?

[Capt Rich Fla]

I remember the cell phone fiasco but I can't remember the circumstances of your break-up with her, Rich. How come you two didn't stick it out?

Man I don't know. It wasn't me. I'd stay married to my worst enemy if we had a child together. I called one morning and everything was fine. That evening she was leaving. We never even faught. She was going through the loss of her youth stage that all moms get nowadays. 30 years ago marriage meant something totally different than it does now. Marriage now is a formal piece of paper that says this is the person I'm dating right now.

[SC_RedskinsFan]

I don't understand this world. Where I come from if you get a girl pregnant you have the baby and you will get married and there will be no divorce and you will give that child a good life. When will our generation understand, once you have a kid it's not about us anymore. It's about the kid. "I might not be in love with her." Tough ****. Why can't people do the right thing by their kids? They should get married. I don't care what they feel for each other. This single parent stuff today is bull****. Now this child has to grow up without a father. What a pair of scumbags. I'd be willing to take the baby if they can't do the right thing. ****!


I dissagree with just staying together for the kids. I think that is harder on the kids. They see what is really going on. When you are not happy it makes them not happy IMO.

[Capt Rich Fla]

I remember the cell phone fiasco but I can't remember the circumstances of your break-up with her, Rich. How come you two didn't stick it out?

Another thing was, in my opinion, chemicle. If your pregnant and breast feeding for the better part of three years you have all sorts of hormones going weird. All of her friends were partying. That made her mad because she couldn't. When she finally stopped breast feeding the youngest one she went off the deep end. She was depressed. Hormones off the scale. I was gone alot. She didn't hang around a good crowd. She finds a stedy income of blow from some guy around the way and guess what? She's having a kid with the neighborhood coke dealer.

[Chachie]

30 years ago marriage meant something totally different than it does now. Marriage now is a formal piece of paper that says this is the person I'm dating right now.



I have never been married but I believe that statement to be true.

[Chachie]

Another thing was, in my opinion, chemicle. If your pregnant and breast feeding for the better part of three years you have all sorts of hormones going weird. All of her friends were partying. That made her mad because she couldn't. When she finally stopped breast feeding the youngest one she went off the deep end. She was depressed. Hormones off the scale. I was gone alot. She didn't hang around a good crowd. She finds a stedy income of blow from some guy around the way and guess what? She's having a kid with the neighborhood coke dealer.




Wow. Yeah she was dying to break out and when she did she ran amok. I can see where it's hard to forgive. I know there's a lot of anger in you. I hope you consider calling her and just offering her any help you can give just to show her she had the right man the first time around, whether she deserves your help or not. Sometimes we find how deep our spiritual waters run by ignoring our own pain and reaching out to the shallower people around us. I know you've got that man in you, Rich. Show it to her for your kids.

[Capt Rich Fla]

Wow. Yeah she was dying to break out and when she did she ran amok. I can see where it's hard to forgive. I know there's a lot of anger in you. I hope you consider calling her and just offering her any help you can give just to show her she had the right man the first time around, whether she deserves your help or not. Sometimes we find how deep our spiritual waters run by ignoring our own pain and reaching out to the shallower people around us. I know you've got that man in you, Rich. Show it to her for your kids.

Hey, when she said they were not getting married that made my heart break for the baby boy. That's the only world he's gonna know. If that scumbag can't step up than I'll raise his kid as my own. It's not the kids fault. I was raised by people who weren't my parents, and I think I turned out pretty darned good.

[Chachie]

Hey, when she said they were not getting married that made my heart break for the baby boy. That's the only world he's gonna know. If that scumbag can't step up than I'll raise his kid as my own. It's not the kids fault. I was raised by people who weren't my parents, and I think I turned out pretty darned good.



You're made of the good stuff, Cap. She will soon know what she walked away from.

[Midnight Judges]

This thread is not complete until someone throws a chair.