Random Thought Thread

[KDawg]

I've been doing a lot of thinking lately. My ex, who is a good person and never cheated on me, which should be noted... Was always flirting with guys. And every male wanted to get with her. And I've seen other girls who are in relationships, or even married cheating on their men left and right and then when their guy is around hang all over him and act like he's the best thing in the world.

It really makes me never want to get married to anyone. Disloyalty is something I can't tolerate. I've never cheated and never will. If I really have that strong of an urge to cheat, I would break up with the girl I was with first. You don't do that to people. And for the record, I've never ever had close to that urge to do that.

I see all these happy couples walking the street and I doubt to myself whether or not it's real, or if one of them (could be the guy too) or both of them are being disloyal to one another. It's an awful chip to have on your shoulder. I literally feel like I can't trust anyone. I have a few friends I trust with my life... but most of the people I hang with I have no trust in and don't trust them with anything on a personal level. It's sad, because I never used to be that way... But the girl before the last one... I lived with her. We were together for 2 and a half years. I had the ring. She cheated on me with three guys... One of which was her best friends boyfriend, who she's now engaged to. And I've seen him out making out with other chicks. No, I didn't say anything, karma sucks... And I don't really care either... But it's these types of things that make me sour as hell.

There are good girls out there. I know that. But the trick is finding out which ones they are... because girls (and guys too) can put up one hell of a facade and then turn out to be total ****ing scum.

[Park City Skins]

But the girl before the last one... I lived with her. We were together for 2 and a half years. I had the ring. She cheated on me with three guys... One of which was her best friends boyfriend, who she's now engaged to. And I've seen him out making out with other chicks. No, I didn't say anything, karma sucks... And I don't really care either... But it's these types of things that make me sour as hell.

I remember that one from a few years ago. Tough times and tough decisions I know. I was going through something a little similar at the time. Actually you're actions inspired mine and I've been happier since. That said,the above quote can and will dictated how you look at possible relationships in the future. Don't let it. It's one thing to be cautious,but it's very easy to start comparing other girls and situations to the one described above. It can in fact,disrupt future relationships. Whether we're aware of it or not. Have to engage in some introspection sometimes and become aware of when that's happening. Easier said than done,but you have a good head on your shoulders so you'll be okay.

[terrifNick21]

Whoever hacked my account and changed my password, **** off. lol.

[KDawg]

I remember that one from a few years ago. Tough times and tough decisions I know. I was going through something a little similar at the time. Actually you're actions inspired mine and I've been happier since. That said,the above quote can and will dictated how you look at possible relationships in the future. Don't let it. It's one thing to be cautious,but it's very easy to start comparing other girls and situations to the one described above. It can in fact,disrupt future relationships. Whether we're aware of it or not. Have to engage in some introspection sometimes and become aware of when that's happening. Easier said than done,but you have a good head on your shoulders so you'll be okay.

Of course, you're right. It's just difficult. I am really having a hard time trusting people. Even friends other than my closest. I'll be fine. In fact, I am fine. Just wish people wore a sign that said: "Fake" or "Real". It would make my life much easier

[CoolUsernameHere]

So what does everyone like to eat when they're hung over? I'd love to know some answers within the next hour or so...

[Redskin-All-In]

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[ixcuincle]

Need to watch Talladega nights sometime. "Shake n bake"

[Redskin-All-In]

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[Bubble Screen]

Need to watch Talladega nights sometime. "Shake n bake"

Being a big Nascar fan and all, you're probably not gonna believe this, but I didn't find Talladega Nights to be very good. Yeah, it had its funny moments. But overall, just a bunch of silliness. And the sad part is, alot of folks that watch it probably think its an accurate portrayal of the sport.

[terrifNick21]

I need an anonymous female's opinion on something. . . PM please if you wouldn't mind helping.

[No Excuses]

If I could, I would marry Nutella.

[Rdskn4Lyf21]

So what does everyone like to eat when they're hung over? I'd love to know some answers within the next hour or so...

Gas station hot dogs and these coconut cluster things that sell at the front. They are one of those candies that is 2/$1.00.

[IONTOP]

If I could, I would marry Nutella.

Well now that gay marriage is legal some places, you'll be able to marry it in a few years.... OMG SLIPPERY SLOPE...


Seriously I'm getting really tired of girls who run away or have to "think about things" after a couple weeks... It always happens and I can't explain why... But they usually come back with something along the lines of "I got overwhelmed by things"... Or "I like you TOO much and I was afraid of getting hurt like that again" Maybe I should just start throwing punches the first couple of dates...

[KDawg]

Well now that gay marriage is legal some places, you'll be able to marry it in a few years.... OMG SLIPPERY SLOPE...


Seriously I'm getting really tired of girls who run away or have to "think about things" after a couple weeks... It always happens and I can't explain why... But they usually come back with something along the lines of "I got overwhelmed by things"... Or "I like you TOO much and I was afraid of getting hurt like that again" Maybe I should just start throwing punches the first couple of dates...

That's their way of saying: "I like you. But there's some other guys I'm interested in too and I don't know what to do. So I'll say that I like you too much and pretend I'm afraid of commitment to see who I really like more"

Don't put the ***** on a pedestal.

But don't change who you are, either. Obviously, they like you.

[ixcuincle]

That's their way of saying: "I like you. But there's some other guys I'm interested in too and I don't know what to do. So I'll say that I like you too much and pretend I'm afraid of commitment to see who I really like more"

Don't put the ***** on a pedestal.

But don't change who you are, either. Obviously, they like you.

Lol you're lucky you don't visit HF

I'm a lot more judgmental there on a ton of topic that anger me

I'm pretty subdued here