So I meet this girl about a year ago in a spirit group at my university. We became good friends especially through standing out in lines waiting to get into games. Well over the first couple of months we seemly got closer and closer and we had long conversations. Like we talked one time for like 4 hours straight. Well I eventually decided I would tell her that I really liked her hoping she would give me a chance to be more than a good friends. I think we had known each other for over 4 months at that point. Well she told me that she didn't think we knew enough about each other and that she still was getting over a bad relationship. This was kinda of a punch in the heart seeing as my last 4 relationships have ended because the girl other cheated or just became a absolute ***** who treated me like crap. Well I recovered but there's this awkward feeling between us now that that was out there. Well last night a friend told me we were visiting a friend with the same name. I didn't realize it was her because she had just moved to a new place that I hadn't been too. So I show up and soon as I saw her everything just came back and hit me all over again!!! I thought I was over it but now my mind has been just tangled with thoughts of her.
What the hell do I do? Do I say something even after what happened before or do I just move on? Or something else?
All I know is I need advice
UPDATE: Apparently her best friend and my best friend have been talking. The girl has been through so many bad relationships her best friend thinks shes afraid to risk going out with a supposed "nice guy" because all of them were nice guys who turned A hole on her.
I should have mentioned for those saying you would be hitting it in a month or whatever if she was in to me she's got the whole major christian thing(which I have no prob being catholic myself) going on but she definitely got a party side as do most college students
So it sounds like she doing the whole "if I don't someone close they can't hurt me" thing.