I'm reminded of people that used to ask if it bothered me that rich donors cared so much about tax incentives. The response was simple: helping the poor was the mission and the other stuff is secondary. If you think that helping without the religious stuff is better ill give you the same answer.
China imposes birth control and is decidedly anti religious. India has a completely different view on family size and is much more religious. Poverty and population issues exist in large numbers in both places. Your simplistic view of an issue that has plagues humanity since our numbers were TINY is ridiculous and arrogant.