Quote Originally Posted by G.A.C.O.L.B. View Post
But what attracts them in the first place?

Man, I swear I'm wasting my opportunities. I've got the perfect set up and back story to be a "bad boy" but I just don't have it in me to be a douche.
And alot of times its just the superficial stuff (looks, status, etc.)

And you cannot always easily spot domestic abusers ... most act quite normal under most circumstances. By the time they find out, they're already in too deep.

The guy equivalent is going after the gorgeous chick who happens to be crazy...