Girl Dilemma....

[stevemcqueen1]

Be straight with her let her know how you feel, if she's interested she'll respond. If not, move on it's not worth spending 19 years loving a woman & dealing with somone else's hangups & nuerodic behavior, not to mention the verbal abuse

19 years? That's an oddly specific number to throw out there. I vote this for most depressing revealing post of the thread.

[mojo]

Now that I'm back to the busy bar that is the busiest joint on the boardwalk, I'm completely reminded of how girl problems feel. The girl I was with a while back, who ditched me without notice, sitting there getting hit on and acting like nothing ever happened with us, the girl who I have a strange crush on, who I won't talk to and the girl who likes me and I cut off all at the bar.

Reminds me of that line from an eagles song. Got 7 women on my mind. 4 that want to own me, 2 that want to stone me and 1 says she's a friend of mine.....

[skinfan2k]

well i think it would be better for you to start online dating, if you are that scared to talk to them in person.

[Joe_328]

Draw a picture of something funny on a piece of paper, napkin, etc.. Nothing elaborate, a simple stick man type drawing of something that both of you would understand (something a student or professor did in class that was embarrassing/awkward)... Match this with a simple ice breaker and it's golden. Works 90% of the time. 100% laugh.

[Koolblue13]

19 years? That's an oddly specific number to throw out there. I vote this for most depressing revealing post of the thread.

I was going to comment on you pointing that out, after the earlier comments, but I think you're right.

[HeluCopter29]

19 years? That's an oddly specific number to throw out there. I vote this for most depressing revealing post of the thread.

Should we make a new thread to vote on it?

[Burgold]

Given the lack of a follow-up post I think things didn't go as hoped or they went really well!

[Riggo'sRangers]

If you are getting a signal from her not to approach, then she is likely actually sending that signal out. Your attempt is likely to fail in getting the girl, but it will be great practice for you. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Girl or practice, it's all good. After having this experience, next time there will be an irresistible aura of braveness about you.

This.

[Bubble Screen]

Ding.

Just put yourself out there. Chicks dig a guy who has confidence and can make her laugh.

The best possible thing for you to do is approach her and drop a little science on her BEFORE class.

Walk right up to her, look her in the face and tell her "Sorry I have stared at you all semester, but in my defense, you are the most beautiful thing ive ever seen. Simply gorgeous. Have a nice day, maybe we can grab coffee or a drink sometime?"

then walk away, sit down, let that one marinate for a little bit. Don't expect an answer right away, this way she feels no pressure.

After class, ask her if she put any thought to that coffee date (trust me, she will have thought about it all class), reinforce that you are a harmless student just looking to enjoy a nice beverage with the prettiest girl you've ever seen.

This is proven to work as long as you don't act like a fool. Remember, act confident and smile. Carefree, happy go lucky is the best approach.

Chics may dig confidence and someone that can make her laugh, but not someone creepy. What you're telling him to do is creepy. At best, it's just lame. If anything, she'll probably move to a seat where he's no longer facing her.

[mojo]

Chics may dig confidence and someone that can make her laugh, but not someone creepy. What you're telling him to do is creepy. At best, it's just lame. If anything, she'll probably move to a seat where he's no longer facing her.

. Yea. I agree. "I've been staring at you all semester" as your first words to her is noy a good idea. That appears you're thinking you will be lucky to get a date with her. The trick is believing she will be lucky to grab a drink with you. It sounds bad to say but the truth is you have to let them know you're interested but also make sure they know you don't give a **** if they say no.

[DeaconTheVillain]

I didn't say anything about it, but when I first read what OP wrote in the first post I knew he already blew his chance. Waiting until the last day? I mean pretty much anything he says at this point will come off as strange, creepy, desperate. etc.

By the lack of update, my guess is that OP nervously counted down the minutes he had to make his move and then the bell rang and he realized that a whole semester passed without saying a thing to a girl he has a crush on

[Prototype]

It's been a while, but, yeah, she ended up having a boyfriend... oh well

She was nice though, and we ended up having a small conversation. Turns out, she's a big Redskins fan as well.

Damn, I knew it was too good to be true...

[RansomthePasserby]

It's been a while, but, yeah, she ended up having a boyfriend... oh well

She was nice though, and we ended up having a small conversation. Turns out, she's a big Redskins fan as well.

Damn, I knew it was too good to be true...

Darn. Props for talking to her though, and better luck next time.