Ok so I'm seeking some advice here, so as some of you know my wife and I just had our first child and he is now 5 weeks old and things have been pretty good. But I've got a feeling something is going on with her. I mean we are pretty sleep deprived and get irritable with each other occasionally but nothing to any extent where we don't make up or get over it quickly. Well we let my mom take him overnight a couple nights ago and things went well, we went to dinner with some friends and had some alone time just the two of us and it was great. Well today she texted me and is having my mom keep him again overnight, which i am fine with but its making me nervous to have him away too much when he is so young. And she told me she feels like she is missing out on stuff. Which i get, i used to play music and be in bands and travel playing music but i gave that up and have really focused on being a dad and working and trying to build a good life for our son. And my mom always said if we need a night away just to call her which is great and all but i hope this isnt leading to a bigger problem. I dunno, maybe im looking too much into it. But have any of you experienced and issues like this and all i know to do is just be there for her and to listen and try to support her. But i kind of feel helpless right now.